I think in life it is VERY easy to focus on everything BUT your current situation...
We worry about the future... think about what we DON'T have in our lives... it's very easy to get in that frame of mind!
For me, I always thought by 28 that I'd be married with at least 1 baby by now.. Well news flash, for those of you that don't know me... I'm 28 and couldn't be further from married or having a baby!
But instead of focusing on what I DON'T HAVE... I focus on what I do have..
I have a job that I love, a family that supports me like no other.... friends that are basically family to me... I have SO many loving and encouraging people in my life I NEVER thought I could feel this loved being single...
I had to change my outlook on and my perspective on life... and once I did that my entire world shifted...
No, I'm not exactly where I want to be in life at the moment... but I'm not where I used to be... I'm making progress... moving towards my goal... and as far as marriage and baby... I know that day will come for me!
And when it does, it's going to make all the bullshit I've put up with the last couple years worth it... So I'm just trying to sit back, relax, and enjoy the ride! :)
(You can buy the sunglasses I'm wearing HERE)